One -- Our beliefs create our reality
We are limited by what we believe is possible. Once we develop the mental focus to concentrate and the willpower to see our desires through to fruition, we are able to create what we believe. There is only one thing that can stop us from creating what we want, and that is doubt. If we have doubts, we must realize they are only shadows of limitations that we have adopted from others who have tried and given up. Besides, doubts are not who we truly are. Sometimes the greatest leap of faith we can take is in ourselves. Once we know what we want and are willing to commit to see it through, we can achieve whatever we choose.
Two -- When we learn to accept ourselves can we greet others with full acceptance
The level of acceptance that we greet others with directly affects the outcome of the encounter and the quality of the long term relationship. Have you ever been greeted with complete acceptance? It’s a rare occurrence in today’s world. When we greet someone with complete acceptance, it opens the doorway to truth and honesty. If we greet someone with mental and emotional resistance (even if it’s only a little) we limit our ability to clearly communicate with that person. Our ability to accept others is always limited by how we accept ourselves.
Three -- There is great power in seeing the best in others
When we practice seeing the best in others we improve our relationships. We know exactly what our relationship is with anyone by paying close attention to the first thought that crosses our mind the instant we see them. What is our first response to that person? Paying attention to our first thought will give us great insight into the quality of that relationship. How many of our relationships have some negativity or emotional resistance in them? When we practice seeing the best in others, we help them and ourselves to let go of negative thinking and habits.
Remember, how we choose to respond and relate to others is a reflection of our habits and beliefs. One of life’s greatest gifts is that we can change our mind and improve how we relate to ourselves and others. When we see the best in every person, we are making the world a better place.
